Friday, January 23, 2009

A FAR-AWAY FATHER'S ADVICE TO HIS SON WHO IS ABOUT TO BE CIRCUMCISED

Being done without anesthesia
and having experienced it myself,
I can tell you how painful it is.

But I will not dissuade you
to undergo such ritual,
the boys' only right

rite of passage to manhood.
It's once in a lifetime, after all.
As you brave the scalpel

of Tiyo Pisyong, gleaming
radiantly in all its sharpness,
tell him to do with precision

his spitting of chewed guava leaves
unto the wound. Then take Vita-K.
It will help halt the oozing of blood.

So you can move with ease,
wear my loose t-shirts
until the laceration is healed.

Ask your Mama to dress it
with agua oxigenada every morning.
And be careful not to step on

or pass over chicken dung
so it will not swell red
like overripe tomatoes.

(Appeared in Home Life, October 2005, Page 28)

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